October 31, 2008

Seven Gemstones for Success

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“Let your heart be in your labor and success will often follow.”

When you set a goal, no matter how difficult it seems to accomplish, don’t be afraid to take the risk. In life, some sacrifices are worth the challenge. So, stop making excuses. Life is too short to miss out on reaching for your goals and realizing dreams do come true. With a little effort and a little time on your part make a commitment to go for it!

If your goals and your dreams are good ones a plan is required to make them real. Develop a time plan or a target. For instance, when you know the end result you wish to accomplish, you might list several mini targets to work on first.

Your initial target plan might look like this:

If you wish to lose 20 pounds, set up a weekly schedule. The first week you might start a daily exercise program. Second week- start cutting back on sugar and sweets. Third week - try and lowering your daily intake of calories, and so on until your goal weight is achieved.

If you wish to take a trip to the south of France (or wherever), or if you desire to expand your business, the strategy would be similar. You may need to set up a weekly or monthly schedule to put a sum away toward the cost of the trip or the cost needed to purchase more space and more equipment for the business. You could cut back on your spending and put the savings aside, or take on an extra paying project until you reach your required goal. When you’ve accumulated sufficient funds for the trip or the down payment on the larger business space and more equipment, you can plan your next target.

So that you may have a richer, fuller, more rewarding life, putting a system together to target your success and make your dreams a reality may include the following seven gems:

Set reasonable goals and target dates. Day to day living makes a lot of demands on you - your time, your physical and emotional energy, and your responsibilities. Do not set yourself up for defeat. Master one goal at a time and do not expect instant gratification. With the onset of the microwave, and then along comes the computer and the internet both giving ways to shortcut everything you do, trying to stay focused isn’t always easy.

Be the master of your thoughts. Dream big. A small goal takes just as much time and effort as a giant one. Think your goal through and keep a record of your ideas and a time schedule of what needs to be done and when. Seek help where needed.

Choose goals that you are passionate about. Motivation and inspiration are powerful forces that keep you moving toward your goals. Positive attitudes are also helpful. And of course, never forget your faith and the knowledge that a higher power is available to help you reach your goal. Remember: Nothing is easy, and everything takes time - lots of it. So, be patient -it eliminates the stress.

Stay healthy and practice taking care of yourself - first. When you aren’t feeling well, everyone around you is affected -your family, your friends and associates, and your business clients. Try to stay flexible and allow enough time to work on any project so you won’t have to rush. The old saying: “Haste makes waste,” is often true and may even cause a serious accident. And if you are a sole proprietor, when illness or accidents happen, this could mean a devastating loss of business income.

Don’t be afraid to take risks. Fear is an internal blockage that you impose on your thoughts. It is a way of making excuses for not dealing directly with your anxiety. Or, you may not wish to face the outcome. What if it doesn’t work out? Instead, replace your thoughts of fear with your own source of strength and let your inner support system guide you.

Keep a list of your qualities and values. What do you consider to be your most valuable asset? Do you know which of your qualities you need to make stronger? Make a list of those qualities and values that you think are the best you, those that make you feel most secure, and give you your highest self-esteem. Some of these may include: self-confidence, a forgiving nature, courage, being a good listener, trustworthy and honest, and a willingness to inspire others.

Keep your emotions under control. A peaceful attitude and an awareness of your surroundings go hand in hand with prosperity and success. When you are peaceful, your thoughts and actions come from a wide-awake place that is free of fear and confusion. You will see more clearly and act quickly. When you are at peace within yourself, you attract all that is good. You are more likely to bring success, happiness and prosperity to you. When you feel rich, you attract riches. And when you feel successful, you become successful.

Make it your goal to attract the best of gems to reach your success and prosperity!

Are you willing to pay the price?

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“When you see the promise, you will be willing to pay the price.”

Most times when I walk on the streets I notice different sets of people. There are always the successful ones and those on the other side of the divide. I used to ask myself why this is so until I read a book by Jim Rohn, “Leading an inspired life.” I then understood why some people will be successful in life and some won’t be.

This life is built on paying a price to get to one’s destination. We all have a price to pay, what determines where we end at the end of the day. When we start out early in life, we always see a bright and promising future ahead of us; the world looks conquerable to us that we dream of so many lovely things we are going to do with our lives. We see ourselves in lovely rides, beautiful mansions and wining and dining with the mighty in our communities. We see people such as Bill Gates, Warren Buffets and their likes as our models and boy, we can’t wait to get to their levels!

On setting out, the reality sets in! It is not as easy as we think it will be! We have heard several times that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown but unfortunately, FEW are willing to undergo the “uneasy” part of being successful. Those who have been successful, always place the picture of where they want to go directly in front of them. They sleep and wake with the picture always before them and where ever they go, they never leave the picture behind. That is the promise they are pursuing. When they have the mental picture of what they want to achieve, all that remains is to look at the price they will have to pay, in order to get to where they are going. They are never afraid of the price they have to pay because of the mental picture that they are always carrying with them.

Successful people pay a lot of prices before they achieve their success. They suffer a lot of ridicule from people around them, rejection is always their lot on a regular basis. What of hunger? They always have to go a lot of days without food just because they want to achieve the promise. Days are spent without having a dime in their pocket but they are still undaunted. The owe debt to high heavens and they see that as a price they needed to pay. In all these situations, they are always in a cheerful mood and unless they tell you what they are passing through, you will not be able to know. That is the big difference between a person who succeeds and a failure in life: An ability to see the promise and pay the price.

People who don’t make it at the end of the day, see the promise or the luxuries of a successful life, but are not willing to pay the price. By so doing, they don’t become successful. Willingness to pay the price, no matter how heavy it is, is a perquisite to being successful at the end of the day. “No pain, No gain” is a popular word which we all need to imbibe, seriously, into our lives. If you are going to be successful later in life, you must be willing to pass through lot of hassles. If you are not willing to, then I am not sure you are willing to become a successful person. See every negative event arising while trying to achieve your dreams, as one of the price you have to pay on your way to living a successful life.

You will get there.

Adebola A. Oni